Not to get all competitive about mother-in-laws but mine? Has got to be hands-down cooler than most. This makeshift slip n' slide on her sloping front yard was her idea.
So was bombing down it right along with her grandbubs.
The woman is not afraid of a mess.
I think we can all agree my MIL wins.
Love you, Ummoni!
[showmyads]
It's my good fortune to get to visit Detroit on a biannual basis, and I say that without a shred of sarcasm. Detroit, contrary to everything you read, has pockets of splendor. It's not a diamond in the rough. It's more like a diamond that was once immaculate with perfect cut and clarity, but which is now eroded and cloudy looking. There are flickers of redemption, however. And there are places where, if you squint your eyes, you can imagine a golden era of prosperity. Take Belle Isle, for example. An island, accessible by car (and maybe bus?), with views of Detroit and Windsor, Canada. The entire island is a ruin. It is not ruined. It is a ruin of a time gone by: a petting zoo now shuttered and graffitied, a casino that is closed except for the public bathrooms, fountains that no longer shoot water. But it has a unique beauty, this totem to a place of leisure for an urban culture that once was.
[showmyads]
And then there's Corktown, with our favorite cafe, Mugsies, where everyone should go with their friends, if they have friends like Bess and Amelia who were once Loverpants' campers, fun fact, and eat dill potato chips and take a gander around the 'hood.
Dessert at Astoria, Greektown, DET. Yes, please. Opa!
The same fields, the flat, dandelion-specked fields along Cahoon Road have felt hundreds of thousands if not millions of soccer balls course across them--these are the fields that transform to carnival grounds every 4th of July. The same rides, tents, cotton candy every year. The same carnies, the same putt-putt game hosted by the Republican Club. It's a vestige of a Norman Rockwell America. The bandstand and the boosters and the veterans and the flags. Every heart in Bay Village breaks a little bit the day that the rides are disassembled. Bay Days is over, which means so much more than just Bay Days is over. Summer is somehow now on the wane. There will still be pool days and summer reading and running into your summer crush at someone's softball game. But you will never come back to Bay Days except as a year older, wiser, and maybe too cool for all this. Only when you are removed for so many years, the ghosts of Bay Days past revisit you. You are haunted by the feelings of what it is to be a teenager on these grounds, and how conflicted you were, being both independent enough to go without your parents and yet still so awkward running into your teacher next to the giant slide. You hear the echoes of your bestie screaming her guts out on the salt and pepper shaker, and the sense memory of the funnel cake cart comes rushing back to convince you that no time has passed at all. Come fall, these fields are trampled by the cleated feet of every kid who was ever raised in Bay Village, tracking soccer balls in one direction and then the other, stopping only for orange slice breaks.
These fields which bisect East Bay from West Bay, because there is such a thing--people will ask you, "East side of Bay?"--even though this little village that is practically slipping off the cliff into Lake Erie is so tiny, it still has subregions. Neighborhoods, real neighborhoods with real trees that tell stories of children who still ride bikes everywhere, that remember when a little girl was kidnapped from the Village Center. Bay Village is arguably the mini-van capital of the world. People not only make eye contact but they say Hi, and Good morning, while running along the lake, or taking a cut-through Huntington Park.
It is possible to stand on the fields at Cahoon and feel as though you've known everyone who has ever lived or will live in Bay Village, Ohio, to be stirred by the legacy of recreation, these fields that both unites neighbors and divides a small town.
This is the place where my father was raised, where my parents chose to return to raise their own children. This is the place that made me, and which I now bring my children to help them understand, maybe (?) a little part of this American dream.
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A byproduct of Bay Village, my sister celebrating her entry into the twirties....
And my bro.
